As you may know from a prior post , I’ve been single for nine years. I haven’t been hit for a long time, out of dating apps, and especially in LA. About 2 weeks ago, I was waiting at the bus stop after my roommate went off to the movies with her boyfriend. I wanted to do a quick Trader Joe’s run post work.
This random guy approached me. He introduced himself, asked me how my day was, then asked me if I had a boyfriend. I responded with a no and he asked me why not. Maybe I am in the wrong for this but I was quick to say men ain’t shit. He asked why about that, too. I told him because each guy I’ve met 8-9 years was so quick to fuck.
I did have random hook ups a few times when I was younger. I haven’t done that in years and I am not about to be on this whole you will text me “wyd” me to death for a few days then ask to smoke with me at my house. I’m not about it. Don’t get me wrong, I love to fuck. I will fuck you because I like who you are as person and that turns me on. Physical traits are nice too but will I be down with every guy who has a beard or tattoos? No.
He asked if he could be friends, and I said No. He then started yelling that I am ain’t too good because I ride the bus. We were at a major intersection and he YELLED this while walking away. He kept yelling it. Luckily, the bus came. I see how I was dismissive a bit but my instincts was telling me not to fall for it.
Even though I felt like something was off with him, I would have given my number if he just started with that. I also don’t drive for numerous reasons: cars cost MONEY, I’ve lived in a major city since I was 18, and it’s better for the environment. I don’t need a car to drive a mile to work! It wasteful to me to have a car full time.
When it comes to trying to date, this is an example of why men is shit. I am still split on this being the worst interaction or the guy who thought I wasn’t “just” black and him telling me he was mixed. But these have to be the top two for sure.
I have downloaded OkCupid, Tinder, and Bumble to see what’s going on actually on these apps. So far, I’ve found two guys who potentially would want more than to fuck but I’ll save that for another time.
Anyways, take what you want from that experience of mine!
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